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PC Exercises &
Male Multiple Orgasms - I will present a condensed outline of how to
exercise the PC muscle and why you do so. This will help answer many questions
that have been asked of me.
Locating your PC muscle: You probably
knew where to find it the moment I mentioned it. But for review, I will
start from the beginning. All of the individual muscles close to the groin
- buttocks, abdomen, thighs, and PC may feel the same. They might all feel
like one big muscle mass. Here is the simplest way to find your PC muscle
and isolate it from all the others. First, gently place one or two fingers
right behind your testicles.
Pretend that you are urinating. Now
try to stop the flow. The muscle you just used to turn off the flow from
the bladder is your PC muscle. Did you feel it tightening? Maybe you also
noticed that your penis and testicles "jumped" a little when you flexed
your PC. It is important that your stomach muscles and thigh muscles remain
relaxed. Did they get tense too? Here is a trick if they are getting in
the way. Try flexing your stomach muscles or thigh muscles a number of
times to tire them out and you will have a better time of isolating the
PC muscle. You are not trying to get an erection here, and you do not need
an erection to exercise the PC. Relax and let your penis respond naturally
to these exercises.
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Exercise 1. Squeeze Play (three to
five minutes a day) Three times a dy, flex the PC twenty times. Hold it
for one or two seconds each time, then release. That's it. Twenty squeezes,
three times a day. You do not need to keep your finger on the PC during
these exercises. You should be able to feel it move internally. If you
don't, or if you're not sure, then keep your finger on the PC the first
few times you do your exercise. Breathe normally during this exercise.
Like any other muscle building exercise, proper breathing is always important.
You don't want to hold your breath. Repeat this exercise three times a
day, every day, for three weeks. These PC exercises are easy and can be
done anywhere - in the car, at the beach, or while sitting at your desk.
Do it on a long line at the bank, or on a bus etc.
PC Pitfalls: Doing too many reps.
Go slow at first, as you would when you start any other exercise. You can
pour it on later. Failing to isolate the PC. It is important that your
stomach, upper thighs, and buttocks are all completely relaxed when you
are working out the PC. You might have a tendency to tense your other muscles
during your exercise . What you need to do is tense and untense your stomach
or other muscles ten or twenty times before you begin your PC workout.
That will tire them out so they don't get in the way.
Exercise 2. The Big Squeeze (two
to three minutes a day) Have you done Exercise 1. for three weeks? You
are now ready for the "The Big Squeeze" (a.k.a "The Power Squeeze" or "The
Death Grip" Keep doing your twenty squeezes, three times a day, but now
you are going to add ten really slow squeezes. Take five seconds to slowly
squeeze your PC as tight as you can. Now hold the tension for a full five
seconds, if possible. Finally, release the tension gradually over the next
five seconds. You should be able to feel yourself really working the muscle.
This might be a bit difficult at first. You may only be able to do one
or two fifteen second squeezes before you tire. That's okay. But try to
eventually work up to ten full repetitions, each taking ten to fifteen
seconds. It's most important that you don't push yourself too hard. Concentrate
on control. You should be feeling each repetition and trying to control
that PC whenever you want.
MALE MULTIPLE ORGASM AND THE MULTIORGASMIC
MAN A multiorgasmic man quite simple, is a man who can have two or more
orgasms in a row without resting. He does not experience any significant
down time between his orgasms. By "down time," I mean a refractory period
in between orgasms when the penis is not easily aroused. A multiogasmic
man is able to maintain his erection, even though he has already had an
orgasm, and continue making love from orgasm to orgasm. Unlike most "normal"
men, a multiorgasmic man does not lose his ability to stay erect after
his first orgasm. He can continue to a second or even a third or fourth
orgasm without resting. This is not the same as having two or more orgasms
in an afternoon of lovemaking with periods of rest or breaks in between.
The multiorgasmic man does not need a rest. He might want to, and he certainly
can, but he doesn't have to stop. He is capable of continuing to make love
immediately after orgasm. There are some men, particularly young men, who
are just plain lucky. These guys are naturals. Men like this are born multiogasmic.
For the rest of us, we have to be trained in it.
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ORGASM WITHOUT EJACULATION......
As far as most men are concerned, there is not such thing as an orgasm
without ejaculation. It's a package deal, like thunder and lightening,
right? Wrong. This may be hard to believe, but orgasm and ejaculation in
males are two separate things. Yes, they typically occur together, and
yes, if feels as though they are a package deal. But the physiological
reality is that they are not inseparable. It is possible to have a full
orgasm without simultaneous ejaculation. You can however, have an orgasm
with ejaculation, but you will determine when and if you want to, and not
your penis. Did you know, for example, that ejaculation acutally occurs
in two phases: emission and expulsion. In the emission phase of your ejaculation,
semen starts to move through the vas deferens as muscles near the prostate
gland begin to spasm. The semen collects in the urethral bulb at the base
of the penis.
In the second phase of your ejaculation,
the expulsion phase, the PC muscle starts to contract, forcing the semen
up through the urethra and out of the penis. In a nutshell, here's what
happening. In the emission phase, semen from the testicles and prostate
takes a little subway ride to the base of the penis, prodded along by the
contractions of muscles near the prostate gland. In the expulsion phase,
your old friend the PC muscle picks up the ball and pushes the semen up
through the penis and out into the world.
Phase 1: The cannon is loaded. Phase
2. The cannon is fired. THE ENTIRE EJACULATION PROCESS--EMISSION AND EXPULSION--
TAKES ABOUT TWO SECONDS.
SPECIAL TIP: WHEN YOU REACH THE POINT
OF NO RETURN, YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SHOULD STOP THRUSTING. KEEP TAKING DEEP
BREATHS. OPEN YOUR EYES, FOCUS ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION ON YOUR GENITALS,
AND TRY TO FEEL THE SEMEN MOVING FROM YOUR TESTICLES, TO THE BASE OF YOUR
PENIS, AND UP THROUGH THE URETHRA. COULD YOU FEEL THE SEMEN COLLECTING?
DID YOU FEEL YOUR PC SPASM? IF YOU STOPPED THRUSTING IN TIME, YOUR TWO-SECOND
EJACULATION PROBABLY FELT AS IF IT TOOK FIVE TO TEN SECONDS.
For most men, the contraction of
the PC during expulsion is an involuntary process. Once you take control
of your PC muscle, however, you can voluntarily delay or prevent ejaculation.
Yet your body still experiences the full sensation of orgasm, complete
with rapid heart rate, muscle contractions, and the intese sensation of
release. Understanding the difference between emission and expulsion helps
you learn to actually feel these two distinct phases of ejaculation as
they are happening to you. Most men are very aware of the expulsion phase,
but they have little sense of what's happening prior to that. But if you
want to get the timing right in the last and most important exercises,
you're going to need a bit more ejaculation awareness than the average
guy.
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KEY POINTS SO FAR: PC exercises and
awareness of the PC muscle are key to controlling ejaculation. Orgasm and
ejaculation do not have to occur together; they are two distinct phenomena
that can be experienced as separate pleasures. A nonejaculatory orgasm
feels as good, if not better, than a conventional orgasm. Having a nonejaculatory
orgasm enables you to maintain an erection and continue intercourse. It
is possible to have a second orgasm soon after your first orgasm. It is
even possible to have a third or fourth orgasm, whether or not you ejaculate
with any or all of your orgasms.
THE REASON YOU ARE TRAINING YOUR
PC MUSCLE IS TO GAIN CONTROL OVER THE EJACULATION PROCESS. YOU CAN CONTROL
PREMATURE EJACULATION AS WELL AS DELAYING EJACULATION TO OCCUR WHEN AND
IF YOU WANT.
HOW AROUSED ARE YOU? Ask the average
man if he's feeling aroused and what does he say? "Yes" or "No". Ask him
to describe his arousal and what does he say? Not a whole lot more. You
need to know what is happening to your body during the various stages of
arousal. There are various levels of arousal, each having its own distinct
sensations and intensity. Some shifts are subtle, some are profound, but
it is not a black or white thing. It's a lot more like a rainbow.
You will want to focus on and appreciate
the different colors of the rainbow and the subtle differences of each
one. You need to know the various levels of your own arousal the way a
composer knows the notes on the scale. To make this easier, you are going
to establish a scale of your own: AN AROUSAL SCALE.
The arousal scale is going to be
a very simple scale that goes from one to ten, with Level 1 being the lowest
level of arousal and Level 10 being the highest. Lets begin with Level
1. There isn't a sexual thought in your head. You are not experiencing
any arousal whatsoever. None. Zero. Nada. At that moment you are at Level
1. Now lets jump to Level 10. That's an easy one. Level 10 is orgasm. The
Big "O". The end of the road. Now all we need to do is establish everything
in between.
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A level 2 or Level 3 is that slight
twinge sensation you get at the base of your penis as you gegin to get
aroused. Next comes Level 4. That's a steady, low level of arousal. It's
more than a twinge now... you're feeling good. Still you could stop without
much difficulty. At Level 5 and Level 6 your arousal is already substantial.
Now you're really into it. Once you reach these levels you don't want to
think about stopping. You're feeling too good now. By the time you get
to Level 7 or Level 8, you will feel your heart pounding and your face
may flush. Level 9 is intense.
You aren't far from the top now...you
are very close to orgasm. Just short of Level 10 is a very crucial point
I call "the point of no return" It is commonly referred to as "the point
of inevitability." It's at that point at which it becomes clear that you
are about to have an orgasm. Once you've hit the point of inevitability,
there is no going back. Your body is committed to having that orgasm. On
our 1 to 10 scale, this "point of no return" would register a 9.9. This
is a very important number for you to remember.
Talking about levels of arousal can
get a little bit abstract after a while. You need to experience them. One
of the ways you learn each level is by comparing it to the previous level,
or to the following one. "How do I know what a 3 is?" you may ask. It's
a little higher than a 2. How do you know you're at a 7? Well you definitely
past a 5 or 6 but you haven't hit an 8. Do note that these number are all
relative to each other. The important thing is that each level feels slightly
different.
The only absolute number assignments
are 1, which is no arousal, 9.9 which is the point of no return, and 10,
which is orgasm. Don't worry if your 4 is another man's 5. All that counts
are your own relative levels of arousal. Please don't use these numbers
to judge your performance in any way. A "6" is not better than a "3"; a
"4" is not worse than a "7.' They're just different. The only goal is to
become more intimate with the subtle changes in your body during your arousal.
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WHAT ABOUT YOUR ERECTION? It is very
common for men to equate arousal with erections, but they are NOT one and
the same. Arousal is a feeling; it is a subjective sense of excitement
that can be experienced throughout the body, though it is typically felt
most keenly in the genitals. Erection, on the other hand, refers to hardness
of the penis. Erection is a very objective measure of hardness that is
a direct reflection of blood flowing into this organ.
A man can feel very aroused...incrredibly
aroused...yet not be erect. Maybe you become fully erect at arousal Level4;
maybe you don't get erect until Level 6. Or maybe like most men, it's different
on different days. It doesn't matter right now because you are not going
to worry a lot about erections here. You're concern right now is learning
about your level of arousal. Focusing too intently on your erection as
a way of discouraging the process. When you leave it alone, it tends to
come home. So don't think about it. Right now, all you need to do is focus
on your numbers.
HOW TO PEAK Reaching a peak means
letting your arousal rise to a certain level and then immediately letting
it drop back down. For example, you may let your arousal rise to Level
6, then let it fall back down. That's a Level 6 peak. Or you may let your
arousal rise to Level 9, then let it fall back down. That's a Level 9 peak.
(Remember that we are talking about arousal here, not about erections.)
This is different from trying to maintain your arousal at a given level,
which is known as "plateauing." I will let you know how to do that in another
post.
You can do this exercise with a partner
but for right now and to shorten this post I will explain how to do it
solo. Lie down or sit down and get very comfortable. Put some lubrication
on your hand and on your penis. What you are going to do now is start by
giving yourself a genital caress. Slowly stroke your self until you reach
what you would consider to be a Level 4 of arousal.
That's past the "twinge" stage to
the point where you're feeling a low, steady "hum" of arousal. Remember
that you are not using a masturbation stroke: you are caressing yourself.
When you get to Level 4, stop the stimulation and take a deep breath...
a really slow deep breath. Check your PC muscle, your hip muscles, and
your thigh muscles to make sure they're all really relaxed. Now let your
arousal drop back down a couple of levels to a "2". Take your time. You
just had your first "peak" at Level 4. Once you have dropped to Level 2,
start your caress again.
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This time, see if you can go up to
around Level 6. You may need to stroke yourself a little bit faster to
get to this slightly higher level. That's fine. When you reach Level, stop
the stimulation once again. Take a real slow deep breath and let your arousal
drop back down a few levels to around a "4." Make sure all your muscles
are completely relaxed. Great. You have just had a "peak" at Level 6. You
are going to continue this exercise for the next fifteen to twenty minutes.
What You want to do is try to have a peak at Level 4, Level 6, Level 7,
Level 8, and Level 9, which is the point just prior to your "point of no
return".
At each level it's important to stop
the stimulation, relax, take a really deep breath, and make sure all of
your muscles are relaxed. Always let yourself drop at least one level,
preferably two, after each peak. Try not to bring your arousal up in a
spike, like shooting from a Level 3 to a Level 8. You're trying to stretch
out your arousal into an extended series of gradually increasing peaks.
If you were going to graph your arousal, it would look like a wave, not
like a needle. Don't rush your peaks.
Each up and down cycle should take
four or five minutes. Stretch them out. Let them build slowly and savor
each one. As your peaks get higher and higher, it may become more and more
difficult to relax. One way to overcome this by taking deeper and deeper
breaths at each level. If all this stimulation has made you need to ejaculate,
go ahead. Otherwise, you can stop the exercise once you've completed four
or five peaks.
If you don't get up to Level 8 or
Level 9 the first time, that's okay; you will with practice. Ultimately,
you will need to be able to peak at very high level. This is not hard once
you get used to the whole process of peaking. Through repetition you will
learn to recognize and become comfortable at your different levels. Believe
it or not, it won't be long before you can even differentiate between Levels
8, 8.5, 9, and 9.5. Talk about knowing your own body! This kind of fine
sensitivity to your arousal will make multiple orgasm a snap.
ALL THE WHILE YOU STILL NEED TO
DO PC EXERCISES AND ALSO YOUR ENLARGING TECHNIQUES. IN THE END YOU WILL
TRULY BE A SUPERMAN.
Before I proceed, if you have read
to this point, you will have noted that there is a lot of work to be done
on your part. Enlarging your penis is childs play as compared to this.
You must master all of the preparatory exercises etc. to build a solid
foundation. You have to take baby steps before you can be a superman. There
is no overnight system to transform you. However, as you have learned about
PE, is that, in time, and with hard work, you will reach your goals.
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